Pakistani television actress, presenter, and producer Nadia Khan, famous for the show, ‘Nadia Khan Show’ has recently entered her second marriage.
The Dolly Darling actress shared the exciting news with her fans on social media. However, the negativity that went about on social platforms is beyond understanding. The fact that even some of the girls reacted adversely towards it brings one question to the fore: can’t we see anyone happy around us?
Don’t Get Personal
Nadia Khan was my senior in college. I remember her as quite a snobbish girl who had just started working in dramas n that got to her head. She married again today. It’s her personal life but am just amazed at how easily some ppl move on. Her youngest kid is barely 2 years old.
— Ayesha Saeed (@Ayesha2Saeed) January 2, 2021
Just because we watch celebrities daily on the television screen, immerse in their everyday life through social media, and have access to them directly or indirectly through social media, doesn’t authorize us to comment anything we like- especially if it concerns their personal life. We, as a society, need to understand our boundaries. Our comments (constructive and well within ethical boundaries) on her acting, hosting, or any aspect related to it could be justified, but anything negative based on assumptions, allegations, and incomplete information about her on any public figure, is unapprovable. Their personal lives should be respected as much as you would like for your own.
Learn to Appreciate
Nothing is better than living your life with a loved one. Every one of us would fancy the idea of waking up beside someone who gives you a feel of protection, love, and care. But, when it comes to any celebrity, we prefer jumping to conclusions and spreading negativity. Such a thing happened with Nadia, where people could not digest her happiness in her wedding photos just because she was entering her second marriage [Yes, that’s her second marriage, not third, as claimed by many.] The idea that a woman, especially a celebrity, cannot marry for the second time is absurd, unIslamic, and unconstitutional.
Instead, we should appreciate that after all the hardships she had to go through during her painful years of the first marriage, she has found the courage to trust someone once again. Those who have gone through the soul-shattering experience of failed or abusive marriages realize how hard it becomes for them to carry themselves. Giving another chance to their life, and finding love could be a tough ask. At such a delicate hour, a word of appreciation can do a world of good for them.
Avoid Cruelty
Among several other laughable objections to her wedding, one was that how could she think of ‘another’ marriage while she has kids as old as her daughter, and because she is X years old. How cruel are we as a nation! What on earth does it have to do with someone if a person finds his/her love at an old age? We as unaware bystanders cannot pass judgments on someone’s personal life. Marrying anyone of her choice at the age of her choice is her constitutionally protected right. Why can’t we just let it be and be happy with their happiness? If all we can do is a ‘comment’ then why not use it for spreading happiness and not hatred.
A Perfect Marriage
If a perfect marriage is one in which all stakeholders are content with it and equally involved, then Nadia’s marriage was perfection exemplified. Her happiness and felicitation were evident from her face, while her husband feels himself to be the luckiest to have found Nadia as a life partner. On top of that, their children [from first marriages] were also part of the wedding ceremony and were quite approving, from the look of it. If everyone directly concerned with the marriage is happy then why not us? It is time that we as a society learn to give people some space and know our limits.
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